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8/23/2008

Families Can Be Together Forever



My Dad and brother, Dallin, died in a plane crash Friday evening on their way home from work in Eastern Utah. There were nine people from my dad's office plus the pilot and nobody survived.

I am still trying to process it. I was still in Missouri with Dan when I found out last night and I am on my way back to Utah today. Dan will meet us out there later this week. Our family is hurting, as well as all the other families. Dallin's wife, Kamber, is due with their first little boy next month. He was so excited to be a dad!

My Mom is doing great; she is holding our family together. Please keep us in your prayers, especially my younger brother Chris, who just left the MTC and arrived in Japan this week for his mission. It is hard to have him so far away during this, but we know he is where the Lord wants him.

I have so many emotions going through me at this point but even stronger than the sadness for our loss, is the peace in knowing we are an eternal family. What a blessing it is to have the Gospel in our lives! I don't know how I would ever find comfort in this situation if I didn't know that I would see my brother and Dad again. Thankfully, I do know that we will be together again. We are sealed as a family, to each other, for eternity. What peace and comfort that gives me! The Primary song "Families Can Be Together Forever" has been replaying in my head also. So simple but so true. I am grateful for my Dad, who was always an example to me, in every aspect of his life, and for a brother who truly followed that example and set one for me as well. I love them and will miss them both, but only until we are together again!

I have already seen blessings and tender mercies happening to our family because of this experience. Keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

27 comments:

Katie said...

Marie, Brooke called me this morning to let me know about the terrible news. I am so sorry. I can't imagine what it must be like for your family right now, trying to process it all. We are praying for you all.

I know you'll hear it from many others, but I want to tell you what a good man your brother was. He was very accepting of others, easily excited, funny, very hard working, and very good. I'm sure he learned much of what kind of man to be from your father.

Jennie said...

wow, Marie, I'm glad we have the Gospel in times like these as well. I will be praying for you and your family.

Dave and Alisha said...

We love your family and are so sorry about this tragedy. We will be thinking about you guys and keeping you in our prayers.

Stephani said...

Marie - I heard what happened to your family this morning and just cried for your family and everyone else. We are so sorry for what has happened and will keep your family constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Know that we love you and that we pray that you will all be comforted by the Savior and kept in his loving arms. - Stephani & Coby

LeAnn said...

Marie,

We are praying for you and wish that there was more that we could do. This is a huge tragedy for the whole community. Your strength is such an example to us.

Jared and LeAnn

The Littlefields said...

These feelings of loss and tragedy have reverberated throughout the ward and our family hurts for you guys too. Just know we will be thinking of you all and have you in our prayers.

Unknown said...

I am SOOOOO Sorry Marie! I just heard and my heart is hurting for your whole family and everyone else that is having to deal with this! Your attitude is amazing and your testimony shows through every blog that you write! If you need ANYTHING...let me know!!

Jen Hilton said...

Oh, Marie, I am so sorry. You and all your family are in our prayers.

Nate said...

Marie, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what your family is going through right now. Our prayers are with you. If there is anything we can do to help, please just let us know.

-Sheri & Garry Adams

Chelsea said...

Marie, my heart aches for you at this time. I'm so glad you have the eternal perspective right now and I know that Jesus Christ can heal your and your family's hearts. Remember that you are "encircled about eternally in the arms of his love." (2 Ne. 1:15) We love you!

Jen said...

We just wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. You are amazing for keeping such a great eternal perspective. Thank you for being such great friends, and wonderful examples to us.

ashley said...

You are amazing and I love you.
Please call me if you need anything at all.

Hilary said...

We just heard from Chelsea. We are so sorry. We are praying for your family.

Rachel said...

I'm praying for you and your family too.

Rachel

Keith and Nicci said...

We are so sorry to hear this news. We wish we could do something to relieve some of your family's hurt right now. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

andrea said...

marie,
i'm sooo sorry. i actually read about that on the yahoo news. I'm so glad that you are holding up well and i know it's hard but you know that great thing is that there home and that you will see them again! i'll be praying for you and your family.

Erin said...

Marie,

Jimmy and I just wanted to send our love and let you know that we are thinking of you and your family at this time.

Thank you for your great perspective, it lifts us all.

Jimmy & Erin Shaha

RonElaine said...

We're up for babysitting or dinner or laundry or whatever when you are in town. We'll be in touch. Much love - Ron & Elaine

Brook said...

Marie, I'm so sorry about this tragedy. Dallin was a great person and friend. I will cherish my memories of him. I just wanted to let you know you and your family will be in our prayers. If there is anything we can do to help please let us know. anything at all. we can be reached through our blogg. or e-mail or phone brookquist@hotmail.com, 435-592-3890. I know the savior comforting your family at this time.
with much love
Brook and Roeun Quist

Lindsay said...

Marie, I just heard what happened through the family grapevine. I'm so, so sorry for your tragic loss. We'll be keeping your family in our prayers. (((HUGS)))

Lara said...

oh my goodness, you will surely be in our prayers tonight. hugs to you and yours from matt and I.

Jenny Wilson said...

Marie,
My heart goes out to you. Your family is amazing! I am sorry that you have to go through this hard time. Families can be together forever- but we will miss them here on earth.
Jenny Wilson

Erica said...

Marie-
We are so terribly sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you or your family.

Jared and Erica(Edwards) Walker

Brad and Meghan Miner said...

Marie,
I want you to know you will be in our prayers and I am truly sorry for your loss. May the Lord bless you and your family with peace at this time.

Adam and Bri said...

Marie, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know my prayers are with you and your family.

Melissa said...

orMarie...my mom just told me your sad news last night and I was so shocked. I'm so sorry, I can't imagine what you and your family must be going through at this time. I am amazed by your beautiful perspective and sweet outlook of hope through the gospel, you are an example to us all. You are in our thoughts and prayers from afar, and I know you will all be blessed in the middle of something so difficult.

Grant and Taryn Layton said...

You are so right, families can be together forever. You are amazing and strong. Thanks for your strength and testimony at this time when I'm sure you are hurting. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you.